some closing thoughts regarding TheButcher

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Such a small matter it would've been for TheButcher to settle up fairly
with me, and honor his word to me about that small amount of money,
because not only was it what he agreed to, in fact, it was his own idea,
in the first place, when he was asking me to borrow this money, that he
said at the time was to go toward him buying an expensive domain, this
money I sent to him on Fri. Sept. 07 ($400) was NOT for an ad, I did send
him money in the amount of $300 on Sept. 01 for an ad, and have proof of that.

Instead of honoring his word to me by settling up fairly to the terms of the loan
of money that I gave to him that was his own idea as stated himself to pay me
back the very next day, AND in the specific amount of $500 which was his own
idea, rather than it being merely what he agreed to (I hadn't said $500 first myself),
what he did instead was stall, play games, make excuses, then becoming evasive
and even ignoring my fair attempts to contact him to settle up our unfinished business,
has as this present result of my being able to truthfully relate my experiences with him,
as having done this bad biz with me, that he has lied both to me, and about me regarding
this episode of a straightforward exchange that should have been no problem to finish up.

This all began between me and TheButcher on Friday September 7th,
when I trusted him in our ICQ chat, and I sent him $400 just because
he had asked me to borrow $400, and he would pay me back $500
the next day, Saturday September 8th, but I was very patient and I did,
in fact, give him the benefit of the doubt as to his intentions of paying me.

It was by no means at all, and by no stretch of the imagination, either,
that I had jumped the gun or judged him too quickly as doing bad biz.

I had talked to him a number of times during the rest of September,
both by ICQ instant messenger, and by way of emails I sent to him,
in my fair attempts at contacting him in order to get him to settle up.

And having a valid reason to contact someone on any unfinished business
is NOT harassing them, and it isn't any excuse for them to start ignoring you.

I started posting on the message boards and in forums about him in
truthfully relating my experiences with him as having done me wrong,
ON >>> October 11th, so I really waited and was fair and gave him
ample opportunity and more than enough chance to respond properly.

October 11 is when I started posting about him recently about this.

1. September 07, I sent him $400

2. excuses, etc....

3. September 18, I received $384.10

4. excuses turn to being evasive and just outright ignoring

5. it becomes clear he has no intention of paying me the rest.

6. OCTOBER 11. I began telling my story of him ruining our friendship and trust
because of his unwillingness to honor his word in paying the rest to me = $115.90

7. Then the games he plays turns to bashing me or lying about me
on his board in order to try to deflect the attention that I called him a liar,
sophisticated tactics, like calling me a liar for calling him a liar, and like that,
or alternatively as a way to try to get me to lay off because he is giving me flak.

8. It ought to be a sensibly expected consequence of lying to someone
that they will be able to say that you did lie to them and that you are a liar.

9. Lesson for TheButcher:
He dosen't like being called a liar. Stop lying to people. Don't lie.

10. >---> What now? What next?

It's just like what I said about TheButcher at the bottom of my web page
that I made just recently about him, because of this, that shows the emails:

"TheButcher just bans and ignores people who have valid issues with him he should address "

Lawrence Connor

LC

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...and every bit was truthfully relating my experiences with > TheButcher
not any one part I related in my explanations and descriptions is untrue...


As to this situation that I have expressed thoroughly, I have been honest.

I believe it's worthy to note, that nobody has made any attempt to refute my points.

I feel fairly sure that what I have pointed out are all reasonable ideas and sentiments.


it was not really only about the small money involved here... = $115.90....
that he refused to fairly pay to me CONTRARY to his own stated promise to me
it was more about the fact that he had said the lies and played the games he did...
he had banned me soon after my loan to him, and was posting bad about me
before I started my own recent posting about him > in return..... revealing him as a liar

so it was NOT "just the money", that is only PART, and that was $115.90

but still, NOT just the money, ($115.90) it was the betrayal, being dishonest

and his banning me during that same time frame only a few days after I sent him the money

he always mixes me up with anyone else who bashes him, and blames stuff on me

regardless that I didn't do it, well this time he earned me bashing him, myself,

so the betrayal of trust and friendship of him to me first in this is actually

what happened, you see it as if I did bad to him, no, he did bad to me first

mine is the reaction to a lot of other stuff that you don't see yourself here

he did me wrong first, he banned me a few days after I loaned him the money

he also started posting bad about me on his forum before I posted about him

so you see there is a lot more to it than just my complaining over the amount of money not repaid to me


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